Longevity

Sharing values, outlooks and social chemistry is extremely important.. but it's not what holds a relationship together.. for what holds a relationship together is how we choose to interpret and where we focus our feelings, on the aspect of our partner

Bad and good aspects will be inevitable, sharing both of them in a relationship will be guaranteed, but if your relationship is worthwhile, if you do share values, outlooks and your social chemistry is strong.. avoid getting lost on focusing your relationship feelings on the negative aspects of them

Instead, keep your mind set on the good, you can react to bad as that's human, but ultimately focus the outlook of your feelings for them only on the good.. it's the only way for a relationship to survive, through the turbulence of life and our universal vulnerability to flaw.. Mutual Appreciation.